Broken Bridge

                                      Sweet something left behind.

A broken bridge a lost legacy a misunderstood statement and the lost love, to be restored 

Just referring to the most common prevailing issue is what i felt legit discussing today, as i sat writing ..

My mind has been over thinking lately, it needs to stop . So i'm here once again with a concern to share .

With a point of view, to put forth .

Just so that we can somehow rebuild our selves ,  end the frustration ,  end the every day obstructions ,  regrow our love for somebody we've lost ,  worry less and live more , just be HAPPY for once and for all .

My subject is  matter of fact very obvious and notable to the new 21st century , to what we call a GENERATION GAP .

The gap that is eroding the very ethical basis of our society .

The gap that's ending the love we had .

The gap that has forced us onto confining ourselves in the very walls .

The gap breaking us little by little everyday .

The gap we find no solution to .

The gap every parent and child find them selves helpless to.

The gap burring a relentless question of what have i done wrong to deserve this ?

The gap raising a question to there might be something missing in our way of brought up.

The gap breaking families apart .

The gap corroding the unity.

The gap entangling a mind into a million other questions .

The gap that has led to a disastrous outcome .

The gap, growing.

But let me tell you:

Its not the gap , it's just an EXCUSE, a Flee away.

Whose guilty for it , who should we blame this for ? 

Are you to be blamed?

Or you're one of those who blame your parents for it ?

As you might think of how ruthless, selfish, stingy, cranky, over protective or strict they get at times, do you?

But why they do that? 

They love you, they definitely do .

This explains all.

The thing is, there's not always a fault or a mistake for things to go bad .

There has not to be the one person we can blame every time for anything that goes wrong .

We just can't.

But what i believe and you all know within, there is a reason for everything , not a person  but an idea , not a mind but a thought .

Instead of cursing your very self or what life has offered you , why not try to find the cure? the reason !

Why not just try to make it better?

Why not just cooperate a little maybe?

You know this , each and every one of you . There's something missing from your side , there is , has to be .

There's an element of Trust we're missing .

There's something called an Understanding we lack .

There's the Affection we've lost.

There's the Bond we leaped.

There are the Priorities we shifted.

There's the Truth we overlooked.

There's the Optimism we no longer hold fast onto.

There's the Hope we've lost .

Being a teenager myself i do know many of you are facing parental problems .

You just cannot share your inner self, i see people sharing their lives with people they've met two days back but not with those whom they know since ages , just because you take them as your guardians .

But you're forgetting that one most important and special thing , they're your closest . 

I'll take my example to be more clear .

My mom ,  a sweet heart . 

The loveliest women, the purest heart , the eyes i truly find myself in , the only expectations i want to actually come up to .

My dad . he's a champ , trust me he runs a 2 km track along and i just love having him along every time i look beside, every time .

They understand me like no body else does , i share what i feel , i get my answers , i let myself go.

It's just perfect.

You just can't be more beloved to anyone then to them , then why this ?

This is just not being honest to the people who love you the most.

You're free, still behind the bars .

What a life.

Dining on one table everyday still the guy living next door knows more about you , why ? 

I know why

Just because he won't  give a damn of you smoking marijuana, watching you die every time you take a puff but not leaking your very secret because he's that ruthless person who will not be affected by any accident happening in your life . 

And you call him a friend. Huh

And for you parents you follow a certain criteria :

“Parents are like God because you wanna know they're out there, and you want them to think well of you, but you really only call when you need something.” ― Chuck

That is just pathetic

Give them time .Talk.

Trust me that will be when you'll be living.

You don't even know what you're missing . 

At least i know about DESEES, they sure do miss 'Ami ka hath ka parathay'.

Parents are considerate , they know you . They'll understand you.

Just be a person you don't have to hide from them , trust me that's the best of you and you know it . I know you do.

They love you, they'll protect you , no matter how far they have to go.

It's always best for you, for me , for US.

It's our time to compromise , to settle along .

We're young , we can change .

They've already forsaken much , no ?

Not any more .

Give them peace , of what all they deserve .

They've raised each and every one of you into young groomed soul. 

They're special more then anybody else around.

Once they're gone , it's over , all over .

Time is really precious , just take the best out of it.

Find the logs for the  bridge you've forsaken , nail it , make it strong ,once again.

No storm could break , no flood could take along , no quake can shake .

You loose them , then you'll realize how alone you're . 

You'll be clinging onto an edge and when you'll look back, there just won't be anybody to pull you back .

To hug you , to make you stronger every time you mess up. To forgive you for everything you've done wrong .To just be with you , for a reason or without a reason.

There won't be. 

You're a family.

Don't let it go for an excuse hardly rational enough to believe .

To all those who have a  family they're about to loose , because they find no reason to stay along then,

"There is no such thing as a "broken family." Family is family, and is not determined by marriage certificates, divorce papers, and adoption documents. Families are made in the heart. The only time family becomes null is when those ties in the heart are cut. If you cut those ties, those people are not your family. If you make those ties, those people are your family. And if you hate those ties, those people will still be your family because whatever you hate will always be with you.” ― C. JoyBell C.

I hope i conveyed my message and that you enjoyed reading , and might some how realize at any point what all was going wrong.

Respect to all those amazing families tied in a beautiful relation ship.

Thank you for reading

Have a good time