A love with a moral code

She was the girl next door...

Little did she know how beautiful she was
Just gave away her heart,to the very first she came across.

Diminishing her values,she made him stay every time
Loathed and disgusted she felt for her clay all the time.

She felt so dependent, like there was no turning back
Never called upon the savior, now that was a slack.

He rediculed her esteem, like never before.
She cried to the mosque , she couldn't do it any more.

She entered HIS( God's) house, when there were no men around
Broken in dispair , she prostrated to the gound.

She heard the words of God,chanting in her ears
She lifted her face , wiped away the very tears.

She sat in the corner,till the things weren't clear
A woman stopped by,what's the matter my dear?

She saw a face so pure,never had she witnessed before
She cried and cried and told the miseries she bore.

Turn to your Lord, He's the most forgiving and merciful
Find your peace in prayer , that is what she was told.

Upon every sujood she called, Forgive me my Lord.
You're the master and I the slave
I commit and you forgive

As the time passed by,heart widended and the days brightened
Her grip on HIS rope,her clasp tightened.

Things that mattered ,never did anymore
She had found a love, free of vices ,so pure.

She was saved by the savior, the creator of the worlds
The miseries enveloping her mind,didn't do anymore.

She was saved by the savior
She was the girl next door..

Learn to Believe it.

   A Condescending Approach to Life               

                               Asalamoalykum Warakhmatullah my brothers and sisters!

We are a creation so perfect by our creator, A Perfectionist, Subhan’Allah

Being a woman myself I would like to put forward an aspect of our lives, an element that envelopes our very reasoning, our self esteem, our self consciousness, our very goals and choices. Not that it only fits to women, but mostly, Yes.

Being part of this censorious society we have innate reduced human measure scales of beauty, according to which we classify a person as acceptable or guilty of imperfection.

Our reduced definitions of beauty limits to certain parts of our body, eyes, hair, feet or whatever.

I believe everyone is guilty of their carping instincts at some point, little or big

We have solely lost the concept of perceiving beauty holistically. 

For instance, a brother grows to an age of marriage and you might would want a general survey from the people around you, appearance nay a very defined appearance, is by far the most important element a man will look for in his woman, rarely are chances that a girl is valued for her intellect, education, an ability to run a household, chances of being an appreciable life partner and a good mentor for his to come babies.

The aftermath, many of you must already be aware of.

Anyhow the point I’ve been trying to make is, this all has drastically affected girls in their teen ages or I might can add girls under teens as well.

Every other girl ferrets up some minor flaws in their appearance either in their skin they might find a zit or they find their legs too short (even if they’re 5"6, the irony) or their cheeks too chubby or their hair too short or they’re fat, I hardly see flesh anymore, we no longer need to procure skeletons for medical surveys for every woman is a walking case of bones (No offense to skinny women, you’re beautiful, just don’t call yourself FAT and avoid bone dissolving crash diets)  and something or something. Every girl is struggling so hard to get bones instead of cheeks, sticks instead of arms and whatnot.

But what we fail to understand is, you will never be worth it for a person who fails to see beauty within you despite all what you’re gifted with. Wallahi, cruelty.

A person lacking the ability to look right at your flaws and chose to ignore them, and love you for who you really are for no human is flawless. By God, you WILL get wrinkles one day. You WILL get swollen eyes, freckles, white hair, loose skin, broad waist, but upon my soul a good heart remains there in.

Our little imagination has limited ability to foresee the big picture rather we’re personalized to go for the glitter but a wise one said every glowing piece is not GOLD.

It’s very convenient for us to splash out mean comments on how a person simply looks, what we fail to realize is how deeply we wound that poor soul guilty of being unlike you/me, guilty of being different or fails to fit your reduced belittled definition of being acceptable to the society.

You’re fashioned exquisitely. And there is someone out there struggling so hard to be like you but you don’t know the importance of it for you did not struggle any, it was God gifted so it’s for granted. It’s useless and you need to change it. You just need to challenge everything. Just can’t be happy with itCan You? Nah

The raised levels of anxiety and mental disorders are because of how complicated we make of things.

     We have adopted this natural tendency of belittling and humiliating ourselves so that someone might have sympathy and say a few words of kindness.

But my question is, WHY?

Why such a condescending approach for one ownself?

Why try so hard for people to love you when you choose the exact opposite?

Love yourself. You’re worth it.

The right people will always value you and you cannot possibly be an epitome of perfection for all eyes.

Every individual has different beauty standards.

Time to modify your mind storming & reshape your own perspective.

Stop feeling so little, compromising and aimless about your life.

Beautiful things are waiting, look around you.

You choose to ignore high prospects for you’re too busy making others realizes your existence.

They’ll know it, I assure you.

Break the cocoon shell and set yourself free from all the hectics of constant self realization and be who you are.

You don’t like heels? Great, don’t wear them

You don’t like tights? Great, don’t wear them.

You like Shalwar Kameez, Go for it.

You like loose cloths and covering your hair, Mash’Allah then my sister, Go for it.

Let go of Don’ts and go with the Do’s.

You define fashion, It doesn’t define you.

Don’t go with the flow; reshape your ocean, that’s the power of a woman.

Let your radiance out roar. Walk with confidence. Know your worth.

You’re here to prove nothing, live for yourself.

YOU'RE BEAUTIFUL,LEARN TO BELIEVE IT.

My sisters:

                            Embrace your flaws, look right at them and choose to prefer your virtues, integrity, equity, goodness over your depravity.

Love. x

SELFLESSNESS

             A CONCEPT IN ISLAM!

S: Serving humanity

E: Endeavoring hardships

L: Living to inspire

F: Favoring the mankind

L: Lifting spirits

E: Enriching smiles

S: Sacrificing oneself to attain

S: Self satisfaction

Asalamoalykum Warahma Tulahe Wabarakatohu!

Been a while since I have added something new.

This world is growing selfish to an extent that the thought of it boggles the very peaceful state of my mind.

Every morning the rising sun brings a new day, a new start but to our dismay we are too bound by our worldly matters to even realize the beauty of it.

Hardly are there men who take out time to implore themselves let alone others.

Hardly they have the capacity to think about others, being all blind folded by the worldly wealth and struggles, what they do not realize is that for Who blesses can take all away in a splint and for what are they are running will not help them ultimately..

Money? A big house? A Mercedes?

Is this why we aresent?

Allah Subhan O Tallah expects us to serve his people, for He is kind to those who is kind to His creation.

Muslims worldwide are facing serious famine and ignorance. Somali women with their four kids leave behind two to die, let alone afford luxuries. On the other hand we, claiming to be the servants of Allah, fail to abide by the laws He has set for us. We are too busy buying our kids IPods and Notebooks and every possible access that’s not even part of necessity.

Question yourself?

Did Allah only ask you to keep your wealth for your family and for family only?

Or did He say to limit your support to your country men only?

Or did He say to let the poor die of hunger or cold or some fatal illness he has no money to get cured of? Isn’t there enough to share or is it that we just don’t care?

Or is it the time of Jahlia(ignorance)?

Selflessness extends to vast horizons, much more than something monetary.

it’s about sacrificing something little to give someone something much more valuable.

The most honest advice to a person is how selfless you can be.

Guiding someone on the right time is how selfless you can be.

Forsaking your affairs once a while and take out time for a person in distress, who knows he’s planning to suicide and you’re to a savior called upon?

Preferring someone’s needs before yours is how selfless you can be.

For if you have Imaan and you fail to feel the pain of your fellow brothers, then I’m sorry my friends you’ve not grasped the very idea of you Deen.

This world, this life, it’s just a maze. The more you go in, the more you’re lost.

Don’t just live like you have eternity..Because Wallahi (Severe upon Allah) ya ukhti ya akhi,you don’t.

Time is passing by, live everyday striving to get the maximum score on your good deed chart.

Being selfless will only make you righteous.

Being selfless will only raise your standard in the eyes of Allah,for Allah loves those who spends in the way of Allah and does good to people.

Desire what your Lord desires of you. And Allah desires you to cater to His creation.

Do not worship your desires; do not enslave yourself to them for you’re born with a much better purpose.

He tells you, you’re sent for the people.

Make the will of Allah Subhan O Tallah your will and for sure you’ll succeed in dunya(world)and in akhira(after world). Subhan Allah.

Do you not see the numerous examples of our Prophet, may peace be upon him….

Before death he had 7 dirhams in his possession which He asked Hazrat Aisha (RA) to give in the way of Allah for he did not want to resurrect in front of Allah on the Day of Judgment knowing he had money and he did not spend for Allah Subah O Tallah.

We are his ummah, where are our morals our concern our brotherhood?

Where is a practical muslimah?

Where is obedience to Allah?

Where is the implication of commandments of the Rub ul Alameen?

It’s time to have the glad tidings or the wrath of Allah the Rub ul Alameen.

Mend yourself before you’re presented in the court of whose Oneness you testify for He is the most just ,the most merciful.

May peace be with you and rest Allah knows the best.

An Exemplary

25TH DECEMBER

Quaid e Azam Muhammad Ali Jinnah 

> The first Governor General of Pakistan.

> Head of "All India Muslim League" .

> Negotiator at all the constitution makings in the sub continent  .

> Muslim representative at all three "Round Table Conferences" .

> A threat to those Congress missionaries with the aim to forsake the peace and sovereignty of the country.

> A leader to carry out practical action on the great "TWO NATION THEORY"by    Sir Syed Ahmed Khan.

> One who gave the 14 points as a constitutional reform plan to safeguard the political rights of Muslims in self governing India.

> A beacon to which all held fast onto , aiming for a better future , struggling    day and night ,  determined  to get  their own,very own separate homeland 

> One who never lost hope and carry out his struggles even after the not so      expected outcomes at the  Simon commission , round table conferences,    reversal of Partition of Bengal , first ever elections held in the subcontinent    denial from congress to make a coalition government and much more .

> One who devoted his life for our better future .

> One who dreamed of our for ever freedom from slavery. 

> One who complied by " Allama Iqbal's" believes.

> One because of whom , we are here today .

> Independent, Rights reserved, Safe with the freedom of speech religion and    free will .

> One because of whom we no longer have to bow before the people no worthy to be called as leaders.

> One, who gave a nation where women were given equal rights with respect      to all fields , opportunities to prove their metal ,a chance to stand independent,a choice to end the reliance. 

> One who showed women their role, so important:

"No nation can rise to the height of glory unless your women are side by side with you. We are victims of evil customs. It is a crime against humanity that our women are shut up within the four walls of the houses as prisoners. There is no sanction anywhere for the deplorable condition in which our women have to live"

Muhammad Ali Jinaah

> One with the greatest achievement:

"We have undoubtedly achieved Pakistan, and that too without bloody war and practically peacefully, by moral and intellectual force, and with the power of the pen, which is no less mighty than that of the sword and so our righteous cause has triumphed. Are we now going to besmear and tarnish this greatest achievement for which there is no parallel in the history of the world? Pakistan is now a fait accomplice and it can never be undone, besides, it was the only just, honorable, and practical solution of the most complex constitutional problem of this great subcontinent. Let us now plan to build and reconstruct and regenerate our great nation.." 

― Muhammad Ali Jinnah

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Unity Faith Discipline 

His achievements , a debt that can   
never be paid . His struggles , so endless , can   never be thanked for.

"With faith, discipline and selfless devotion to  duty, there is nothing  worthwhile that you  cannot achieve". 

-Muhammad Ali Jinnah

"Unity, faith and Discipline" these are three words Quaid-e Azam Mohammad Ali Jinnah gave us. Pakistan was to be built up on the cardinal principles of these three words.

As we all know ,house United is a strong house divided is vulnerable. A common life example , hold a bundle of sticks together , with all your force they'll still be resistant , but if you take a single one it will break in no time. That proves much. United we stand , divided we fall. 

Faith  a spiritual force of a common faith that binds us together.

For Pakistan, the piling force of the advantage is that of religion, Islam. 

The greatest principles ever made powerful are by the combination of spiritual values with democratic mutuality .

Our success lies within.

After faith , comes Discipline, a necessity. 

Systems collapse , nations fall, people go astray .

Week discipline, week country . 

Let us all join hands and win our position we've lost. 

Walk on the principles of success ,that were always meant for us.

A lost self esteem , to be restored.

Let us regard our great leader , our HERO by at least holding onto what he has left .

A legacy to be continued .

Pakistan , a possession for we're answerable to , every single one of us.

"Few individuals significantly alter the course of history. Fewer still modify the map of the world. Hardly anyone can be credited with creating a nation-state. Mohammad Ali Jinnah did all three". 

-Stanley Wolpert, Jinnah Of Pakistan

                            
                  A hearty "Thanks" to all the endless efforts of Baba-i-Qaum.

                        PAKISTAN ZINDABAD , LONG LIVE QUAIDS LEGACY .

One minute stand for our Quaid , for our Pakistan.

> http://www.pakmission.ca/National%20Anthems/National%20Anthem-Pakistan-Instrumentalist.mp3

May Allah protect our homeland and bless Muhammad Ali Jinnah with the glad tidings of Jannah.

Signing off.

May you have cozy winter break, Happy X MAS to all , and do remember me in your prayers .

Breath

BREATH                              

Being in the crowd ,still never letting others to know the real you ,Sitting behind the seats ?Avoiding direct interactions ?Not sharing your views with the fear that they might get wrong ?Hesitation ,lack of self esteem ,low confidence, fear of unknown, no goals with the believe you're not meant to achieve them...Really? DO YOU CALL THIS LIFE? Sometimes all you need is time of your own, barge your doors open, seek your thoughts, search your vision folders and all you need is some time for things to get into order. A slight ray of hope you see, peeping through the dark clouds of guilt, regrets ,broken hopes enveloping your life  ,don't let go your hold !It's your chance ,it might be the only opportunity you might get to have in next few years or maybe your life time .Its yours ,have it .Make a change .Do you wish to have a  regretful life ? Or you wish it to be self contenting....Regrets troubles your solitude, peaceful mind, your soul to every nerve in your body. Your thinking capacity is doomed .Every day you wake up thinking ,that this day might have been  better ,had i taken a chance ,had i made a move ,had i only gathered strength to stand up for myself once and for all .Being an existence is not who you're meant to be ! You're somebody, an identity,  *aik pahchan* !!!Let all know you exist ,let all know you're not only another person breathing ,let all know you're not another soul suffering from society pressures ...Any chance you get in life avail it, no one would do that for you .Even the closest of your mates wish not to help if troublesome situations, every human is selfish to some extent .We're not perfect . Good people exist but you have no clue when you might meet one .SO let go of ropes bounding you to a particular corner of life or might curtailing your visions ...You're free ,why let them take charge ? Why let them have influence over it? Break the walls, set free. BREATH LIVE ENJOY .Be you, Be true! The original you values far more then the fake cover you've put yourself into .Life is beautiful, its bounties so infinite, its blessings that cherish your everyday, its colors so vibrant 

.xx all .Enjoy reading 

Broken Bridge

                                      Sweet something left behind.

A broken bridge a lost legacy a misunderstood statement and the lost love, to be restored 

Just referring to the most common prevailing issue is what i felt legit discussing today, as i sat writing ..

My mind has been over thinking lately, it needs to stop . So i'm here once again with a concern to share .

With a point of view, to put forth .

Just so that we can somehow rebuild our selves ,  end the frustration ,  end the every day obstructions ,  regrow our love for somebody we've lost ,  worry less and live more , just be HAPPY for once and for all .

My subject is  matter of fact very obvious and notable to the new 21st century , to what we call a GENERATION GAP .

The gap that is eroding the very ethical basis of our society .

The gap that's ending the love we had .

The gap that has forced us onto confining ourselves in the very walls .

The gap breaking us little by little everyday .

The gap we find no solution to .

The gap every parent and child find them selves helpless to.

The gap burring a relentless question of what have i done wrong to deserve this ?

The gap raising a question to there might be something missing in our way of brought up.

The gap breaking families apart .

The gap corroding the unity.

The gap entangling a mind into a million other questions .

The gap that has led to a disastrous outcome .

The gap, growing.

But let me tell you:

Its not the gap , it's just an EXCUSE, a Flee away.

Whose guilty for it , who should we blame this for ? 

Are you to be blamed?

Or you're one of those who blame your parents for it ?

As you might think of how ruthless, selfish, stingy, cranky, over protective or strict they get at times, do you?

But why they do that? 

They love you, they definitely do .

This explains all.

The thing is, there's not always a fault or a mistake for things to go bad .

There has not to be the one person we can blame every time for anything that goes wrong .

We just can't.

But what i believe and you all know within, there is a reason for everything , not a person  but an idea , not a mind but a thought .

Instead of cursing your very self or what life has offered you , why not try to find the cure? the reason !

Why not just try to make it better?

Why not just cooperate a little maybe?

You know this , each and every one of you . There's something missing from your side , there is , has to be .

There's an element of Trust we're missing .

There's something called an Understanding we lack .

There's the Affection we've lost.

There's the Bond we leaped.

There are the Priorities we shifted.

There's the Truth we overlooked.

There's the Optimism we no longer hold fast onto.

There's the Hope we've lost .

Being a teenager myself i do know many of you are facing parental problems .

You just cannot share your inner self, i see people sharing their lives with people they've met two days back but not with those whom they know since ages , just because you take them as your guardians .

But you're forgetting that one most important and special thing , they're your closest . 

I'll take my example to be more clear .

My mom ,  a sweet heart . 

The loveliest women, the purest heart , the eyes i truly find myself in , the only expectations i want to actually come up to .

My dad . he's a champ , trust me he runs a 2 km track along and i just love having him along every time i look beside, every time .

They understand me like no body else does , i share what i feel , i get my answers , i let myself go.

It's just perfect.

You just can't be more beloved to anyone then to them , then why this ?

This is just not being honest to the people who love you the most.

You're free, still behind the bars .

What a life.

Dining on one table everyday still the guy living next door knows more about you , why ? 

I know why

Just because he won't  give a damn of you smoking marijuana, watching you die every time you take a puff but not leaking your very secret because he's that ruthless person who will not be affected by any accident happening in your life . 

And you call him a friend. Huh

And for you parents you follow a certain criteria :

“Parents are like God because you wanna know they're out there, and you want them to think well of you, but you really only call when you need something.” ― Chuck

That is just pathetic

Give them time .Talk.

Trust me that will be when you'll be living.

You don't even know what you're missing . 

At least i know about DESEES, they sure do miss 'Ami ka hath ka parathay'.

Parents are considerate , they know you . They'll understand you.

Just be a person you don't have to hide from them , trust me that's the best of you and you know it . I know you do.

They love you, they'll protect you , no matter how far they have to go.

It's always best for you, for me , for US.

It's our time to compromise , to settle along .

We're young , we can change .

They've already forsaken much , no ?

Not any more .

Give them peace , of what all they deserve .

They've raised each and every one of you into young groomed soul. 

They're special more then anybody else around.

Once they're gone , it's over , all over .

Time is really precious , just take the best out of it.

Find the logs for the  bridge you've forsaken , nail it , make it strong ,once again.

No storm could break , no flood could take along , no quake can shake .

You loose them , then you'll realize how alone you're . 

You'll be clinging onto an edge and when you'll look back, there just won't be anybody to pull you back .

To hug you , to make you stronger every time you mess up. To forgive you for everything you've done wrong .To just be with you , for a reason or without a reason.

There won't be. 

You're a family.

Don't let it go for an excuse hardly rational enough to believe .

To all those who have a  family they're about to loose , because they find no reason to stay along then,

"There is no such thing as a "broken family." Family is family, and is not determined by marriage certificates, divorce papers, and adoption documents. Families are made in the heart. The only time family becomes null is when those ties in the heart are cut. If you cut those ties, those people are not your family. If you make those ties, those people are your family. And if you hate those ties, those people will still be your family because whatever you hate will always be with you.” ― C. JoyBell C.

I hope i conveyed my message and that you enjoyed reading , and might some how realize at any point what all was going wrong.

Respect to all those amazing families tied in a beautiful relation ship.

Thank you for reading

Have a good time